101 Romantic Ideas
With all of the messages we receive daily about our appearance, it’s
no wonder that so many of us are critical of ourselves. And when you
feel insecure about something, your natural inclination is to hide it.
Not put it all out there on display!
But that’s exactly what I’m encouraging you to do.
I want you to “do it” in broad daylight…
With the lights on…
Letting him devour your body with his eyes…
Why you might ask?
It’s because men are highly VISUAL creatures.
Adding in the ability
for him to see how much pleasure he’s giving you sends his brain into
sexual overdrive.
Here’s just a few reasons why:
1. Giving him permission to adore and pleasure your body feeds his ego.
Did you know the number one thing that turns a man on is your
enthusiasm for sex and how much you enjoy his prowess?
Yep, number ONE. Not how flat your tummy is or the lack of cellulite on your booty.
He wants to feel like he is taking you to the heights of bliss. And
if you are too caught up in keeping covered, you can’t possibly
surrender to the pleasurable sensations happening. If you refuse certain
positions out of insecurity, that definitely affects how he interprets
your enthusiasm.
2. Letting him watch himself have sex with you is literally intoxicating.
Two of his senses (three if you are talking dirty and moaning) are
involved. Not only does he get to physically feel how amazing the sex
is, he gets to watch how amazing it is, too! It’s a double-shot of hot
for him. And his brain goes on overdrive releasing all of the amazing
feel-good pleasure chemicals that frankly feel insanely
incredible. Plus, with the lights on, it’s like his own personal
naughty movie.
Especially in positions like doggie style where he has a front row
view of all the action. Or if you strategically place a mirror where he
can take in the show. Yowza!
Okay, I get that the idea of putting it all on display sounds scary
to some of you reading this. But here is what I want you to remember:
He’s not judging you NEARLY as much as you are.
He’s way more focused on enjoying the hot view of sex with you than
on counting how many stretch marks you have. Because, hello! Naked woman
having sex with him!
Also, if he tells you that you are beautiful…BELIEVE HIM.
Don’t list
out your flaws or put yourself down. Let him know that his appreciation
is well-received.
Here's to keeping *Love and Passion* in Your Relationship!
Respectfully,
Debbie
Debbie
